I’ve been floating around for a while trying to figure out what i was doing with my life.  I wasn’t really unhappy but at the same time, i really didn’t have any passion or purpose to my days.  Someone made the comment that i looked like i was disconnected and that got me thinking.

It was true, i had become disconnected.  I had lost my focus.  I had started to spend so much time on everyone else that i had lost myself in their needs not my own.  When i realised it, the light came on and i knew that i was going to be ok and that it won’t take long to refocus and regain my passion and purpose.

It really is so easy to become lost.  We are so many things to so many people and before we know it, we are no where in sight.  Our needs get forgotten in the daily grind of car pools, lunches, homework, housework, being wife, mother, sister, friend and employee.

But it can be easier than you think to get back on track, for your own sake.  Stop, look at where you are and focus on what you need right now.  You cannot get what you can’t identify.  You have to be able to name it before you claim it.

Start today by focusing on what you need. It doesn’t have to be huge things, sometimes all it takes is for the slightest change to make the biggest difference.

Here’s to your happiness.